my relationship with my sister

i watched so close the other night. i admire how close the characters were. why? because i never grew up being close to my older sister. i remember that we'd always fight - literally anything and everything under the sun. we'd treat each other as enemies.

when my mom went to Canada, i remember how she told my sister to watch us grow up, given a choice, my mom would never go to Canada but she did as she needed time to recover and think about things.

my sister was the boss. i'd secretly call her the "commander" as she never listens to whatever i think or i say. she claims that i'm too young to answer back that i should have respect for elders. i don't know, for some reason we just can't agree on things. especially when it is about relationships -- my relationships. there was no guy in my life that she approved on. she told me everytime i'm in a relationship that the guy is a big jerk and like what usually happens, i won't believe her until i prove it myself. well, i was lucky enough to prove that every relationship i had was always a big disaster.

it's so fun to think that even the worst enemy could be your best ally.

now, i am happy to say that i consider my sister as one of my closest friends, i can now share anything and everything to her. whether how furious i was with my ex, or how happy i was in school. and i feel comfortable now telling stuff to her. regardless of how we fought when we were young or how cruel we were to each other, i'm proud to say that i love my sister... :)

thanks ate... :)